You do things everyday that benefit others more than yourself. And, not because it makes you feel better, that would reverse the benefit roles, no, it’s because something inside of you guides you to understand that it is the right thing to do.
The more you do such things the stronger the guiding voice becomes and the more you do them, it’s a feedback loop and a good one. One that deserves to be nurtured and cared for and allowed to flourish.
It defies logic and reason.
That’s the way love is.